The Welsh Custom of Giving Lovespoons
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Cyfres Lucila Lavender
A Welsh love spoon may be considered an ideal St Dwynwen's Day gift. Lovespoons were traditionally given as a token of love and affection and each spoon was unique. Although individual, over time a series of symbols was used to convey romantic thoughts and feelings. Here are some designs and their meanings:
Hearts - the universal symbol of love. Twin hearts may indicate a mutual love between the sender and recipient.
Double Bowls - this indicates the union of souls when joined together.
Balls in a Cage - these are commonly thought to represent the number of children desired by the carver.
Chain Links - generally considered to indicate loyaly and faithfulness, chain links may also symbolise a couple bound together in their love.
Diamonds - these are believed to represent a wish for prosperity and good fortune as well as a promise to provide well for a loved one.
Keys and Keyholes - as well as representing domestic contentment, these are thought to represent security and a key to one's heart.
Wheels - these are said to represent the carver's vow to work hard and guide a loved one through life.
The young man would spend hours carving the lovespoon with his own hands, in the hope that the young girl would accept it. If she did, they would start a relationship, which is the origin of the word 'spooning'.
Today they are often given as a gift of affection or a memento of a visit to Wales.Lovespoons are given to commemorate special events such as weddings, engagements, birthdays, anniversaries, births, christenings, house-warming and St Valentine's Day. Over the centuries, many more symbols and motifs have been added and now lovespoons have become more elaborate and collectable.
Here is one made for me when I left my first teaching post to get married and move away from the area. Obviously, those were the days before disposable nappies and by carving the heart's safety pin, the carver thought babies would be on the horizon for me!
Lovespoons do not always come in wood. Clogau Gold has a range of beautiful lovespoon jewellery. For an anniversary, and three babies later, my husband presented me with this beautiful pendant in yellow and rose gold. I was thrilled.
'Yiannis unwrapped the gift and held up a beautifully carved lovespoon, with two hearts engraved with the initials A and Y.
"In Wales these were given as love tokens." Sadie pointed out each part on the design. "The hearts are obviously for love, the bell here is for marriage, the knot symbolises every lasting love, and see the little balls inside the frame? They signify how many children you'll have."
"Three?" Yiannis and Alexandra laughed.
Yiannis handed the lovespoon to Alexandra... "With three woodturners in the room, you could not have chosen a better gift. We all see the craftsmanship and care that has gone into this. Thank you."
💘💘 A VERY HAPPY ST DWYNWEN'S DAY TO YOU ALL! 💘💘
Thank you for reading. Do you own or have bought a lovespoon? Was it for a special occasion? What symbols are part of its design?